I'm happy to announce that after months and months and million of returned shoes, I have really found THE shoes! Woo Hoo!!! I found these on Zappos:
They are the Ralph Lauren "Tyra" shoes. I got them in the champagne/gold color. I originally was going to get the silver, since all my jewelry that day is silver, but I decided that the champagne color will look better with my ivory dress. They are super comfortable and the heel is the perfect height.
I'm really happy to finally have crossed shoes off my wedding list! Who knew it would be so hard to find them? And I'm excited to be able to bring them when I go to try on my dress (when I ever find time to do that!)